Those Darn Song Selections

Those Darn Song Selections

For those of you that follow me on Twitter (Hawaii Wedding) you know that waiting for those “darn song selections” is an ongoing process.

In our bridal questionnaire, we not only ask for your wedding ceremony songs but for all of your special moments such as bride and groom entrance, cake cutting ceremony, first dance, father/daughter dance, etc. In addition, we also ask for the demographics of your guests, type of music that you want played , favorite artists and your “do not play” list.

Why do we ask for all of these songs when your wedding may still be months or even a year away?

Actually, the reason is that selecting song selections tends to be the number one procrastinated item in wedding planning , and in many cases, a lot more difficult than couples think. We ask these questions from the very beginning so that during the course of your planning when you listen to music you are more aware of songs and their lyrics and can start deciding the “feel” you want for your wedding.

Our goal is to send out your preliminary timeline with your song selections at least two weeks prior to your wedding day and a final timeline the week of the wedding. This process allows vendors an opportunity to see the entire day at the two week marker and confirm their timing and clarify any discrepancies and they can finish preparations for your wedding day.

What are the potential problems with the delay of providing song selections?

1) Your musician may not know the song, or your DJ may not have the song in their music library. By identifying this early, we can make the appropriate adjustments on the song selection, or the DJ has time to research and add the requested piece to their library for you.

2) Your musician or DJ often has several events in a week’s time with back-to-back gigs, or in some cases other job, so sending your final song selections the night before the wedding may seem like you “made it” but they may not even have time to access their computer before loading up for the next event. Fortunately with internet access, I’ve literally had some DJs that had to download music on-site, but it can potentially (and sometimes has) caused delays.

3) Special performances (i.e.: hula, etc.) can also be a challenge when the performer’s CD does not work, so we always suggest sending a copy to the DJ in advance to allow them time to check the CD before the event day. This avoids potential problems and unnecessary stress later.

4) Disappointment that your special song request is not played.

Why do you ask for our guest demographics and favorite artists?

The more we know about you, the better we are able to serve you. By knowing the demographics of your guests (ages, where they are from, etc.) we have a better understanding of what types of music may be most suitable. Having your list of favorite artists gives the DJ a better understanding of the type of music that you like to hear as well.

Why do you ask for our do not play list?

The typical do not play songs are YMCA, Chicken Dance and the Electric Slide. Ironically, these same songs have also been on the “must play” list for clients that liked the group participation or because it held another significance to them (i.e. bridal party met at Oktoberfest).

The other do not play songs you want to consider are songs that may remind you of a situation or perhaps even a past relationship that you may not necessarily want to be reminded of on your special day. An example of this is when my father-in-law passed away a couple of years ago a DVD slide show was made with a beautiful song on it, but every time I hear that song it makes think of him which brings emotions of happiness and sorrow.

Dianna Shitanishi featured as The "Go-to-Gal" in Pacific Edge Magazine

It was an honor to be interviewed for the "Leadership Edge" as The "Go-To-Gal" in the Summer Weddings and Events Issue of Pacific Edge Magazine http://thepacificedge.com/ (page 20).

The 3rd Annual Weddings and Events guide also features fellow Oahu Wedding Association (OWA) members Naomi Lee from Les Saisons who is the cover feature and OWA President Dave Miyamoto for "The Business of Weddings" about what it takes to succeed in the industry of love.

Timelines.........timelines..........timelines

Many of the vendors I work with say "you're always working on timelines" and that is so very true!

Whether I am hired as a "day-of" coordinator, a full service planner or somewhere in between, I am always going to make sure that I review the client's first draft of their timeline (if they have made one) and ensure that everything works!

Timing is one of the most critical elements to a successful and stress-free wedding day. If the schedule that is created is realistic and works for the vendors, everyone works like a very well oiled machine and there is no "drama." Problems arise when a timeline either doesn't allow enough time for what you are trying to accomplish or for those "quick ballroom turns" there isn't enough staff to get the job done within the time frame allotted, or set-up is not prioritized by the order of which your vendors are arriving.

An arriving DJ should never have to wait for his table, as that will impact his set-up time. A hair and make-up stylist should not have to wait around for hair flowers because the florist was scheduled to arrive an hour later. The chef should not be worried about the meal service starting late because the receiving line took 40 minutes instead of 20 minutes.

Timing is one thing that you definitely don't learn from a book. Timing can only be learned from many years of hands-on experience with a wide variety of events.

By the time I have completed your timeline I have literally done a virtual tour in my head of your event knowing exactly what needs to be where and when, how much space is required and who is going to be doing what and when.

It is through this process that I (and the vendors) have a very clear understanding of what the bride and groom envisions for their wedding day, and by asking all the right questions in advance and making the appropriate adjustments my couples may relax and enjoy their wedding.

So the next time you're wondering if I'm working on a timeline......of course I am!

Imagine life without a computer

Sometimes I try to imagine life without a computer......

For those that don't already know, my first job was actually a clerk typist/stenographer in Civil Service at Edwards AFB, California. I hardly remember any stenography strokes but taking the time to learn the skill in high school is what gave me the advantage over 100 other applicants.

Typing was a tedious and boring class in school, but to this day, it was the best class that I could have ever taken and I use the skill daily. Back then, typing class was basically just for women interested in being a secretary, but look at the world now, even CEOs of major companies are pecking away on their computer keyboard or Blackberry.

When I think of how fast technology has advanced, I remember learning on a manual typewriter, the incredible memory typewriter, the first DOS computer which was a bit intimidating and then just when you got it figured out, frantically paging the IT manager when my documents Icon disappeared from my Windows screen.

Now I am so grateful for technology for it allows me the opportunity to have my own home based business via a laptop computer, a wireless card and a cell phone. It's hard to imagine how destination weddings were planned prior to computers (e-mail, Google and Facebook), but I love being able to keep in contact with my past brides as well as future with ease.

Just in case you're wondering, I purposely haven't invested in a Blackberry as the vast majority of the e-mails that I receive as an event planner contain alot of important information that I need to extract for timelines, vendor follow-ups and set-up details. I also had a very dear friend of mine break her ankle because she was answering her Blackberry while walking down stairs.

My only wish is that everyone remembers to take a break away from technology to enjoy simple things in life such as watching a sunset.

Orange & Turquoise Lanikuhonua Wedding

This past Friday I had the pleasure of being of service Jamie & Tony who are originally from Nebraska and Canada at Lanikuhonua.

Jamie's favorite color was orange and her bridesmaids dresses were turquoise. As they would be in Europe most of their engagement, I was given some inspiration pictures and then given creative freedom to make it happen.

As with most of my destination weddings, planning was done via e-mail and contact via Facebook.

It was a picture perfect day and they loved everything about the wedding. The orange and turquoise colors blended beautifully throughout the decor and she absolutely loved her hibiscus wedding cake which was made by Abi Langlas at Cake Works which was inspired by the border on her wedding invitation.

When we finally had a chance to meet in person it was like meeting a long lost friend. I couldn't begin to tell you how many times she hugged me and said thank you on her wedding day. That is why I truly love what I do!

Additional pictures from the wedding are on my Facebook page, Dianna K. Shitanishi

Lanikuhonua Wedding - Tracey & Michael

One of my favorite parts of being an event planner is keeping in touch with many of my brides. I just got this e-mail from one of my couples from England & Scotland, their wedding was held at Lanikuhonua.

E-MAIL: Hey Dianna,

Hope you're doing well. I just thought I'd send you a feature of our wedding that appeared here in the UK's Wedding Flowers magazine. Thanks again for doing such a great job with our wedding and please do pass the article onto the florist and anyone else you think might be interested that was involved in our wedding (I've already sent to Frank of course :)

Thanks again. Aloha from Scotland!

Tracey & Michael xx

HAWAII BRIDE AND GROOM MAGAZINE

Check out the latest edition of Hawai'i Bride and Groom magazine which can be viewed on-line at http://hawaiibride.com/?page_id=897

The latest edition features the 2008 Wedding of a Lifetime which was coordinated by Hawaii Weddings and Events (starting on page 87) and also features "Meet the Stress Relievers" (yours truly is featured on page 100).

We were also honored to have our picture used for the Oahu Wedding Association advertisement (page 29)

Special thanks to Julie and Gavin for all of their hard work, dedication and continued support of our special industry.

In Memory of Larry Fair - Live Internet Weddings

Tomorrow will make two weeks since a dear friend of mine, Larry Fair, from Live Internet Weddings was tragically killed in a house fire in Makiki on April 23, 2009 and it still doesn’t seem real.

Larry was ahead of his time in terms of the internet and its capabilities and was extremely knowledgeable about the computer. He fulfilled his dream of streaming weddings live so that everyone would be able to take part in a couple’s special day no matter where they were.

One of my favorite weddings was a couple from Dallas that came to Hawaii to get married and we were working together on their event. The bride was from Poland and the groom was originally from Louisiana. They had a 9am wedding at the Turtle Bay Resort’s pavilion so that both of their families would be able to watch them as they exchanged vows.

Larry was especially proud of being able to share and build his business with his son Joshua and formed a great team of videographers to service their clients both on Oahu and the neighbor islands.

When I first started Hawaii Weddings and Events, we literally sat at Starbucks for almost three weeks building my website page-by-page as I continued to make finger marks on his computer screen pointing where I wanted things to go.

During these three weeks we had an opportunity to talk about many things, and being the very giving person he was, he would not accept payment for the time he spent working on my website so we agreed that we would always share ideas and inspirations to help each other grow our respective businesses, and we did.

Throughout the years, we continued to talk 3-4 times a week on the phone usually before or after our appointments, just to see what the other person was doing and to share new ideas, new locations or people that we had met. I couldn’t begin tell you how many of those talks would be about someone that he was helping with something.

I still find myself picking up my phone to call him and then realizing that I can’t, but I know that he is watching down upon all of us and I’m sure still wiping my fingerprints off his virtual screen.

Please give Joshua Fair and his family your love, prayers and continued support

Love Birds Bridal Expo - Kahala Mall - Saturday, May 9, 2009 10am-2pm

Last week Hawaii Bride & Groom Magazine asked if I could do a couple of tablescapes for this Saturday's upcoming Lovebirds Wedding Expo which will be held at the Kahala Mall from 10am-2pm. In addition to the expo, they are featuring last year's Wedding of a Lifetime Winners "Jayne & Kahele" and will also sharing the finalists for this year's contest.

It's been a whirlwind of a week preparing for the event as I not only have been designing tablescapes to incorporate some of the merchant items, but have also been assisting the mall with rentals and communicating all details to the participating vendors in regards to load-in time, loading zone, parking, booth assignments, power requirements and linen.

For more information on the special promotions and activities, please visit
http://www.kahalamallcenter.com/cms/index.php?page=mall-promotions

The latest edition of Hawaii Bride & Groom magazine which features last year's Wedding of a Lifetime and the "Stress-Relievers" (coordinators) section including yours truly.

Does your vendor have a Certificate of Liability of Insurance?

Does your vendor have liability insurance?

As a wedding coordinator, I get copies of all of my clients vendor contracts to ensure that critical information is extracted (set-up needs, payment schedule, number of hours reserved, a confirmation of what the vendor is providing as well as if a meal is required).

In addition to the vendor contracts, I also receive a copy of the venue contract, which until recently, the only hotel that required a copy of a vendors liability insurance on file was the Turtle Bay Resort. This requirement is now noted on the Moana Surfrider, a Westin Resort's contract as well as the Sheraton Waikiki, so it will not be long before all hotels will also add this to their contracts.

When interviewing and hiring your vendors, please be sure that they have the a Certificate of Liability Insurance and verify if they have one on file with the venue(s) you are considering.

To date, Hawaii Weddings and Events has a Certificate of Liability of Insurance on file on an annual basis with the Turtle Bay Resort, Moana Surfrider, Royal Hawaiian Hotel, Sheraton Waikiki, State of Hawaii Department of Land and Natural Resources (required for beach permit) as well as the City and County of Honolulu Department of Parks and Recreation.

As a professional planning firm, we will continue to add to this list as needed and will always ensure we are always in compliance with the rules.

Day-Of Coordinator Experience

Now, more than ever, brides are realizing that having a professional “Day-Of” Coordinator really helps them to enjoy their wedding day with their friends and family without worrying about vendors arriving on time and knowing where to go, having everything being set-up correctly and how the guests will know where to be, and when as well as keeping the bridal party on time throughout the day.

It is ironic that is called “Day Of” Coordinator because the work actually starts a month before the wedding day. As a professional planner, Hawaii Weddings and Events knows from many years of experience that you just can’t show up on the wedding day and follow a to-do list or a timeline that hasn’t been meticulously reviewed in advance.

So why do we start a month before? Today’s very busy brides are not only planning their wedding, but the majority are going to school, working, relocating or some are mothers. Time goes by VERY quickly especially during the last month so we like get our clients’ finalized contracts, preliminary timeline as well as answers to our own bridal questionnaire form at the one month marker so within a few days we can get back to them with questions, concerns and recommendations and wrap up all details with the exception of final counts by 2 weeks before the wedding day.

Having done over 950 weddings throughout my career, as of today’s date, there has never been a timeline that didn’t need to have some “tweaking” done to it or some “logistic” that wasn’t considered (ie: a charger reduces the number of seats that can fit on your guest table) so you may need to change your seating assignment, go with larger table (if possible) or sometimes eliminate the charger.

How long it takes to do things and how to handle “different” situations is what can only come with hands-on experience and is what I teach to everyone that I’ve trained throughout the years.

Knowing that the hair and make-up stylist is going to want to have your hair flowers there at 1pm when you have your florist scheduled at 2pm is another very common occurrence. It sounds like a quick fix, just have the florist come at 1pm, but it doesn’t always work out that way, either the florist isn’t available earlier, or would charge an additional fee, so hair flowers may need to be picked up in advance which takes advance planning.

Knowing how long it takes to serve a 4 course plated menu and merging your program into the timeline so that your food is at the best quality and you also accomplish your goals only comes with experience.

Another great example of what comes with experience and education is that I once had a client that at the last minute decided to make favors for their guests. They gave me their favors (which were macadamia nuts in organza bags) on their wedding day and said two of their guests were highly allergic to macadamia nuts so they should get the two different ones. With that being said, and the fact they had open seating, I communicated that in this particular case the favors would be distributed once guests were seated as I didn’t want to risk the macadamia nut oil seeping through the organza bag which was fine with the couple.

Knowing to set the favors later was the easy part, knowing from experience and continued education in food handling, I know how critical it is to deal with any allergies and the potential for cross contamination, so I immediately contacted the banquet captain as they had forgotten that the first course of their menu was a tossed green salad that was sprinkled with macadamia nuts.

We had a different salad prepared (it’s not just a matter of taking the nuts off) for their guests and I mentioned it to the couple later in the evening and they said “thank you so much, we completely forgot about that, we could have killed them!”

I told this story to a groom’s mother who was inquiring about my experience she said “oh my God, did anyone ever tell you the groom is highly allergic to shellfish and peanuts?” I told her no, but I will note it in my file and make sure it is communicated to the caterer and again to the banquet staff on the wedding day and it was.

So, the moral of the story is that when you are considering hiring a “Day Of” coordinator look at the value, experience level and caliber of service you are going to receive, aren’t you worth it?

Celebrates 3rd Anniversary with new "Trinity" Full Service Coordination Package

On this 3rd month and 23rd day of March, Hawaii Weddings and Events is celebrating its 3rd Anniversary!

As a special treat, the first three (3) brides that reserve our new "Trinity" package for their 2010 wedding will receive a complimentary 3-tiered wedding cake from Cake Works (6/10/14" tiers with butter cream frosting, your choice of flavors and decorated with flowers provided by your florist)

3rd Anniversary Special - “Trinity” Full Service Coordination Package
In celebration of Hawaii Weddings and Events 3rd anniversary we’re pleased to launch our new full service package. The number three (3) is an auspicious number with many significant meanings. Three is the first of four perfect numbers, it denotes divine perfection (what else would you expect on your wedding day?).

Three, also stands for that which is solid, real, substantial, complete, and entire. The Trinity package is based on a solid reputation for service excellence, real experience and honest feedback, substantial time savings, thorough and complete monthly checklists and assistance during the entire planning process.

The symbol of triad or trinity is a symbol of unity of body, mind and spirit and is found throughout history and all over the world. With the assistance of a professional planner, you’ll still have the time to exercise your body, focus your mind and also keep your spirit happy and at peace by knowing that you are on track with your wedding planning, have the right vendors in place and someone on your wedding day to ensure a seamless day.

The Trinity Package is perfect for the busy couple that knows they need a lot of help and guidance throughout the wedding planning process.

· Our bridal checklist is sent to client to ensure that all of the “little” details have been covered (including names of your entire bridal party and contact information) and is returned to Hawaii Weddings and Events three (3) months prior to the wedding day.
· A minimum of three (3) hours is spent at the beginning of the planning process to finalize the client’s wedding budget (venue, food, vendors, décor, etc.) as spending the time now may save you from costly mistakes later.
· Three (3) virtual consulting hours are provided every 30 days to help answer questions and to start securing your professional vendors based on the couple’s preferences, style and realistic budget.
· Three (3) hours is devoted monthly for the “design and theme” of your wedding which may include reviewing pictures, researching linens, props, décor, furniture, etc.
· Three (3) hours of telephone conference time (or in person meeting) is provided every 30 days to go over each month’s “to do list” to ensure the couple is kept on track throughout the planning process with a written follow-up sent to client by coordinator.
· For off-premise venues (such as Lanikuhonua), Hawaii Weddings and Events will take care of ordering your rental equipment (tent, tables, chairs, linen, china, glassware, etc.) based on your specific needs to ensure nothing is overlooked or duplicated by the caterer and that set-up and breakdown is achievable within the given time frame.
· Three (3) months out, meetings (or teleconference calls) are held every 3 weeks until the wedding week to finalize your menu, beverage selections and assist with preparing a custom floor plan based on your requirements (floor plan, head table, number of guests, dance floor, type of menu, etc.)
· Client provides copies of all contracts that have been secured on their own to Hawaii Weddings and Events not later than three (3) months prior to the wedding day
· In depth review of all vendor contracts and reconfirmation of all vendor services
· Preparation of detailed timeline that not only includes the day of the wedding, but includes your deadlines leading up to your wedding day (when vendor payments are due, pick up tuxedos, dress alternations, finalizing flower order, final counts, table assignments, etc.) is provided to client prior to 30 day marker.
· Assisting in final program for the wedding day that will include specific details on those involved, song selections, timing that is also appropriate to your entertainment, menu, etc.
· Set-up of reception table (guest book, name list, gift card basket, etc)
· Ensures ceremony and reception venue are set-up appropriately.
· On-site wedding coordinator is on-site for up to twelve hours on the wedding day (additional hours available at $75/per hour) to effectively manage the days production.
· Rehearsal (one hour) may be reserved 30 days prior to your wedding date at most venues · Due to the amount of time devoted to your wedding planning, the Trinity package is limited to three bookings per quarter and may reserved up to fifteen months in advance of your wedding day.

Contact us today at (808) 782-4514 or e-mail info@hawaiiweddingsandevents.com to check availability of your special day.

The Evolution of Event Design

Designing events and tablescapes is absolutely one of my favorite parts of event planning!

Sometimes I am given total creative latitude to just take care of everything based on the wedding colors, favorite flowers and other ideas of what they would like to have, but most often, it is a combination of efforts by partnering with my brides who want to be actively involved.

1) The first thing I like to do is to see pictures of things that my client has collected along the way so that I can get a feel for what is "catching" their eye in terms of style, color, decor and the feel of the wedding. It's also good to know the things they don't like (ie: certain flowers, etc.).

2) A site inspection fo the venue (if I haven't already been there) so that I know the space we are working with and how the design may fit (or sometimes not fit) so appropriate adjustments may be made.

3) A critical factor, which is often not considered, is the amount of time available for set-up as well as when breakdown occurs as that in itself may cut out some ideas. The wedding shows are great in showing what the possibilities are, but they don't share details such as it took two days to drape the ceiling with fabric, or you need to reserve the morning time slot to be able to pipe and drape a ballroom for an evening event.

4) Lastly, defining the budget, which after the amount of time and the location features is the biggest deciding factor on what can be done. I ask my clients to put together their "wish list" and we do our best to get everything, but in some cases they may need to prioritize what is most important to them.

This starts the evolution of design which does not come overnight. As ideas continue to fill our heads, we start defining the color(s) we want to work with, the type of flowers that are available, the type of printed materials that the client may have and other decor (ie: lounge areas, special bar facade, candy buffet, favors, etc.) and start creating an overall look for the event that has continuity rather than a hodge podge mix which is what it can be if everything is not carefully thought out.

As we go through the process, I continue to give ideas to my bride on things that we can do based on their budget, the timeframe we're working with and of course available resources.

Once you get into event planning, you never look at things the same way. I can spend countless hours at places like Crate and Barrel (which we don't have in Hawaii yet) and Pier 1 just getting ideas on what I want to do for the events I haven't done yet. When I went to the Smithsonian Institute in Washington DC I probably spent the most time looking at all the gala dinner pictures. I also enjoy going to the National Association of Catering Executives (NACE) educational as it exposes you to another world of creative ideas from the nations' top planners such as Colin Cowie, Scott Corridan, David Tutera and Preston Bailey just to name a few.

OC-16 Wedding of a Lifetime is on-line now

Hawaii Weddings and Events was one of the honored vendors for Jayne and Kahele's "Wedding of a Lifetime."

Their TV show now is now on-line see http://www.oc16.tv/shows.php

Winner of 2009 Bride’s Choice Awards

WeddingWire, the nation’s leading wedding technology company, just announced that Hawaii Weddings and Events has won the 2009 Bride’s Choice Awards™!

In its inaugural year, the Bride’s Choice Awards recognizes and honors vendors from the WeddingWire Network that demonstrate excellent quality of service, responsiveness, professionalism, value of cost and flexibility. This year’s recipients represent the top three percent of WeddingWire’s vendor community, which includes over 100,000 wedding vendors from across the US. That means Hawaii Weddings and Events is one of the very best wedding planners.

Unlike other awards in which winners are selected by the company, the Bride’s Choice Awards are determined exclusively by recent newlyweds through surveys and reviews.

“We are excited to launch this annual award program to honor high-performing vendors based solely on the experiences of our WeddingWire community,” according to Timothy Chi, WeddingWire’s Chief Executive Officer. “This year’s recipients have set the bar high, exhibiting excellent service and expertise in the wedding industry.”

Hawaii Weddings and Events would like to thank our past clients for speaking on our behalf and helping us win the 2009 Bride’s Choice Award!

Wedding of a Lifetime Airs on OC-16 - Monday, January 26, 2009

On Monday, January 26, 2009 at 7:30pm, OC-16 will feature a one-hour "Wedding of a Lifetime" special.

Couples had to write stories to Hawaii Bride and Groom to describe why they were deserving for the free wedding which was valued at over $81,000. On September 8, 2008, the three finalists were featured on TV and the winners, Jayne and Kahele were announced.

With less than two months to plan everything, it was a whirlwind of fun and excitement for everyone involved, and I'm very happy that I had the privilege and honor of being their wedding coordinator helping them make their dreams come true.

NEW Waikiki Sunset Ceremony Package

As we're always looking for new venue options for my clients, Hawaii Weddings and Events is pleased to launch the following new ceremony package.

Waikiki Sunset Ceremony Package - $2500 inclusive of tax

Say "I DO" on the oceanfront lawn as you exchange your vows and start your life together
The Waikiki Sunset Wedding Package is available on Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays (excluding holidays) and will be held on the lawn of Waikiki Aquarium, located next to a living reef on the Waikiki shoreline which is conveniently located for your family and friends

Waikiki Sunset Package includes
Site rental fee for one hour with seating up to 50 guests
Non-denominational minister to perform your ceremony
Acoustic Hawaiian Guitarist to sing Hawaiian Wedding Song as you walk down the aisle
Leis draped on chairs to create your aisle
Two seasonal floral leis for bride and groom for your lei exchange
Commemorative wedding certificate
On-site coordinator for ceremony

Reception Opportunities
The Waikiki Aquarium is also available for welcome receptions, Rehearsal dinners and wedding receptions (additional fees including tent rental applies)

Van Gogh.......

Each day I always take time to be grateful and to look for motivational or inspiration quotes, as it helps to keep life in proper perspective. This picture was taken at the Philadelphia Museum of Art where I had the privilege of seeing Vincent Van Gogh's work this past August in person. Just as having gratitude can change your mood, Van Gogh's paintings of sunflowers have altered mankind's perspective of art and life. These paintings captivate the mind and leave you astounded in their simplistic beauty. The flowing wilted steams and the burst of lovely yellow draws ones attention around the painting, without disrupting the balance of the piece.

Be Thankful.......

Be thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don’t know something. For it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes, they will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you’re tired and weary, because it means you’ve made a difference.

It is easy to be thankful for the good things. A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.

GRATITUDE can turn a negative into a positive. Find a way to be thankful for your troubles and they can become your blessings.

~ Author Unknown ~

Certificate of Insurance

Professional vendors have their certificate of insurance in place, but up until now, we didn't have to show proof to the various venues until about the last six months.

Turtle Bay Resort requires a certificate of insurance on file with the Catering Office and also has a vendor form to be submitted by the client.

The State of Hawaii requires a certificate of insurance in order to issue beach permits through the Department of Land and Natural Resources.

Starwood properties (Sheraton Waikiki and Moana Surfrider) is also now requiring a certificate of insurance on file, so I'm sure Royal Hawaiian Hotel and others will start requesting the same.

Although its a little more paperwork, at the end of the day, I think it is good because then they know they are dealing with professional vendors on a client's most important day.

Sweet 16 Party - Candyland Theme

On January 3rd I had the privilege of coordinating a sweet 16 birthday party which was themed around the game Candyland. One of the best things about event planning is that you always have the opportunity to meet new vendors and also reconnect with past ones while working together to make the client's dream come true.

In addition to this amazing cake (purposely made to look like it is falling as requested by the birthday girl) made by Vickie at Sunshine Cake Creations (her picture), there was a tootsie roll jumper (yes, 16-year old kids still go inside and jump!) from Bounce Hawaii. Videogame mobile (which caught the attention of all the men as well) by Mobile Gamer Guys. A candy buffet that recreated the candyland board game by Aubrey from nā mea maika`i . Catering by Vanessa from Beaches and Backyards Catering who created special menu tags and a candyland path for the buffet line. Vibrant linens from Naomi Lee, Les Saisons which was complimented by pipe and drape and LED lights from REA Events, Photobooth by Bambooth and Photography by Aaron from Liquid Light Images.

Start with Trust.......Better Business Bureau Accredited

As a small business owner, I sometimes have clients question the credentials of my company and experience level.

As I just received my Better Business Bureau certificate I thought it would make sense to post it so that you may easily see that Hawaii Weddings and Events is an accredited business.

As for my experience, you may see see my press release on http://www.hawaiiweddingsandevents.com/about_us.htm

Wedding Day Highlights from Studio Red

This is the second time I had the privilege of working with Studio Red who are very easy going and very talented!

Joel gave me a "heads up" on how he wanted to surprise the couple with their first dance on the ceremony highlights video so we were able to get the spotlight on the dance floor set-up to capture the special moment and then it was set back to their monogram gobo.

I absolutely love the music in this video and how Studio Red captured the essence of this wonderful celebration of family, love and life!

Check out Gracie and Kyle's wedding day highlights at http://www.vimeo.com/2683661

HAWAII WEDDINGS AND EVENTS.....a year in review

Like many people, as I ponder my goals for 2009, I also reflect upon the past year and remember all of the clients I graciously was given the opportunity to be of service to and the awesome vendors and I had the privilege of working with.

So 365 days later...............

47 weddings

1 Japanese wedding class that I teach annually at the University of Hawaii

2 renewal of vows

The First Annual Kalo Awards at the Governor's "Washington Place"

My son's baseball theme graduation party with a special baseball cake made by one my brides

3 events for the Hawaii Event Group including 2800 guests at the Honolulu Zoo and two familiarization tours for the Hawaii Convention Center for Association and Corporate Advisory boards

The start of candy buffet business with my daughter

"Jayne & Kahele's Wedding of a Lifetime" for Hawaii Bride and Groom magazine

"Naruto" theme birthday party (I've done their son's party 3 years now)

My last event of the year a "Platinum style" Peacock Theme wedding for almost 500 guests at the Hilton Hawaiian Village

Finding balance in life is always important, so in 2008 I actually did take quite a bit of time off to for traveling and spending time with my family.

In February, I went to Las Vegas for the National Association of Catering Executives Leadership Summit. March led us to Maui for my son's baseball tournament (first time I ever got to go!), another week off in June for my son's high school graduation from Iolani while my mom visited from California.

San Jose for my son's college orientation at Santa Clara University in July, "Rocky Balboa-land" Philadelphia in August for the National Association of Catering Executives Trends Conference, back to San Jose in September for "move in" at Santa Clara, meetings with my Northern California brides and picked up ceremony programs for one of my clients from my dear friend and colleague Diane from DK Designs who now lives there as well.

Whew........no wonder I'm tired! Just kidding, I've been truly blessed with an amazing year of great events and many fond memories and new friends.

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Tis the season to give......

Christmas has always been my favorite holiday of the year, this year is no exception.

I love the smell of the Christmas tree, and especially love hanging the ornaments as I reflect on my kids growing up.

Every year I add a new ornament to my Christmas collection. I have a baby shoe ornament from when my daughter was born, very heavy clay pieces that both of my kids made in their kindergarten class that have a special place on the strongest branches of the tree and the topper is a Hawaiian angel my son made.

Our tree may not be the most glamorous, but it is a tree full of memories and I wouldn't have it any other way. This picture is from a couple of years ago, as I am waiting for my son to return home from college to put up this year's tree as that is when my holiday season will officially start.

Another favorite part of the Christmas season is taking the time to give back to those less fortunate. Needless to say, the Salvation Army bell ringers always get a contribution and through the Honolulu Chapter of the National Association of Catering Executives (NACE) we've adopted a family through the Lokahi Giving Project for the past four years. At our NACE holiday party on Tuesday evening, we also collected canned goods to be given to Aloha Harvest and I personally donate a holiday dinner to a family in need.